While every Medium's reading style is unique & no two readings are ever the same, an Evidential Medium focuses on bringing through accurate, verifiable details from loved one’s in the spiritual realm. Bringing through your loved one to provide some sense of healing and closure knowing your loved ones continues on in spirit, even after they are no longer in physical body.

Before even booking a reading, doing your research is super helpful. That way you know what to expect from a session. If you are looking for advice on life choices, future events, feeling lost or stuck, relationship advice etc.. These types of questions are more for psychic intuitive style readings rather than a mediumship reading.

Medium’s blend their energy with the spirit’s energy to feel, sense and relay details your loved one provides them. While sometimes a loved one in spirit might offer insights or advice, like they would when they were in the physical world, spirit’s are not all seeing or all knowing. And a Medium’s role is to just be the voice box for your loved one in the spirit world. We try to stay neutral and bring through any details your loved one in spirit would like us to share.

If you are in deep grief, fighting a cold or super stressed out, or in a place of desperation, I DO NOT recommend a reading. Your loved ones are around you, they stay connected to you and will be there for you always. The easiest way to get taken advantage of by anyone is when you are in a super vulnerable place.

Also, there is a thing called “medium hopping”, jumping from one reader to another, booking multiple appointments over and over again. I understand readings are fun and can be exciting. But some folks do this hopping to avoid the healing part of their grief journey. And I say, out of love, save your money. It will never fill the hole the loss of a loved one brings in our lives.

Mediumship is never a replacement for grief counseling, it is only a small component of the healing process. Please take the time to care for yourself first and foremost, that way when the time is right, and your heart is ready, you are able to get the most healing and joy from your mediumship reading.

There is no hard fast rule when it comes to the “best time” for booking a reading. Some religious beliefs have said you need to wait 6 months for a spirit to settle in. Some people think you should wait 6 months so you are not in active grief.

I have personally found spirits can come through moments after they have passed. They aren’t upset and don’t feel bothered. I believe if the conversation is going to be productive, they come through. I trust in the intelligence of the spirit world.

As for yourself, you can book an appointment when you feel like you would be able to hold a conversation with a Reader, without becoming overwhelmed by grief. That could be day’s, weeks or months or upwards of a year. The important thing is just taking the time you need to care for yourself.

Even if a Spirit passed 20 years ago, they can and do come through. As long as you can validate the details about them to recognize who they are, they come through to say hello as well.